We're all works in progress, as individs and as a group. We want to be motivated by love and goodwill with a minimum of rules.
Please check out the faq link on each page which will lead you to the User Agreement, which I just amended to include the phrase discouraging the "impugning of evil motives."
Example: "You're just proud." "You're stubborn." Etc.
Also, note that there is a posting limitation. It applies to single threads, especially. In other words, give others the chance to reply before "piling it on." Thanks. Most of us just have a few minutes at a time to participate, you see.
Please let me know whenever you are offended. I'll try to negotiate with the person who offended you and remove such portions of the offensive posts with the permission of the author. I must have the date and time of the post to make this happen.
As always, I am open to suggestions as to how to keep this Cafe a place becoming of the children of our Heavenly Father.
David Anderson, your friend and moderator (with small "m")