Hi Beth,
Welcome to the House Church Interchange! It's so good to hear how you are enjoying the Lord as you relate to Him and your family at home! Do you know any others in your community who are interested in doing the same or are looking for "church" which is much more Biblical than what they have experienced to date?Be assured you are not alone in discovering that others who are unfamiliar and thus wary of "house church" think that those of us who do not "go" to institutional church anymore have "backslidden"!
In my experience, whenever this sort of discussion arises, I like to refer to Hebrews 10:24,25 - the passage about "not forsaking thew assembling of ourselves together" which many use to claim that "good Christians" must "go to church"! Yes, it is true that we are to assemble together, BUT what does this passage teach that we are to do when we gather??? Two things: (1) provoking or stirring up ONE ANOTHER to love and good works, and (2)exhorting ONE ANOTHER!
How many people that you know who "go to church" can do any ONE ANOTHERING when they get there??? But this is what "church" is all about! It is relating to one another! Loving one another, edifying one another, praying for one another, exhorting one another, ministering to one another, rejoicing with those who rejoice and weeping with thiose who weep, confessing our faults one to another etc etc. You simply CANNOT do these things while staring at the back of other people's heads while you watch a religious performance!
I look forward (and know that others do as well) to hearing more from you in the future!
Your brother in Christ,
Bruce Woodford
Norwich, Ontario, Canada