Before there was the church - there was the family. They encompass one another but are separate spheres. For example, those who fail at leading in their own home are not encouraged to lead in the church. Of course all parents fail occasionally but the drift and direction of their role must be positive.
Observe how this young child is cheering on her Mom as she goes into harm's way to help others far away, sick with the Corona Virus. Her Dad is also a doctor and has just learned that his wife has volunteered.
Remember that Jesus, the Great Healer, also came not to be served but to serve. And that He too is cheering us on.
Go you therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatever I have commanded you: and, see, I am with you always, even to the end of the world. Matthew 28